For the end of the year, I was going to look back and write a post about all the things that I feel grateful for — until I marked myself safe on Facebook. * I was going to explain why we somewhat dropped off the earth for friends, family and the blogsphere and write about
- what followed our preparations leading up to the big move from Australia to Germany
- our considerable state of camping
- how hard it is to pack your groceries in your bag at the speed of lightning
- the craziness of house hunting in Berlin
- how it took an amazing five weeks for the first “Berlin Charme” to come my way (we were in the way)
- how Berliners seem a lot less grumpy in general (a fact that doesn’t seem to apply to the last weeks leading up to Christmas)
- the 60+ appointments we had and the actual paper work, copy shop runs, waiting and commuting fun that comes with that
- how I thought you’d see horses puke before Trump becomes president
- the inspiration that is Berlin
- how cold 3 degrees suddenly feels
- the huge difference between childcare in Australia and Germany
- how an unexpected family situation turned things a bit topsy turvy for a while…
- and all the things that worked out well
Then I marked myself safe on Facebook. Friends kept asking on Monday night if everything was okay before I even knew what had happened on the Christmas market. Everybody I talked to felt a bit weird or lame doing it but it was a quick way to find out if your friends were safe, too. One of our mates works near Breitscheidplatz and was indeed just finishing a shift. He believes, he heard an explosion on his way home (something that was never said on the news).
The next day, my favorite mailman delivered a package. We live on the ground floor, so I see him a lot and at some point, we started chatting. He is of Afghani descent and has lived in Berlin all his life. He told me that he hadn’t been to the Christmas Market at the Gedächtnis-Kirche in 20 years, so he decided to take his entire family on Monday evening. After they enjoyed a bit of Glühwein (alcohol) they checked out the Europa Center nearby and the rest of the story you might have seen on the news. For him and his family, it was a matter of a few lucky minutes. I am not sure if he went to play lotto that day; he had already been given his greatest Christmas present.
We have witnessed an event of hate and terror that has changed the lives of many forever; yet it cannot change the ways we live in a free country. Anything can happen to anybody at any given point in time. Freedom is not only determined by the frameworks that surround us, it starts in our head. In a time that provides a fantastic breeding ground for fascism, the decent people, of whom I choose to believe they still make up the majority, ought to stand up and do something. I am not sure, if I want to live in a world, in which I need to mark myself safe on Facebook. What is next? I-am-here-apps that track you 24/7? Now wait, we’ve already got that.
Don’t hide inside.
Je suis en terrasse.
* In 2016 a truck drove deliberately into a crowd at the Christmas Market at Kurfürstendamm. 12 people died and over 50 were injured. (More horror was stopped due to automatic brakes of the truck.)
Yours if you wish, a Haiku in Deutsch
Ich bin ein
Berliner Leben ohne Angst
Frohes neues Jahr an alle
© BE KITSCHIG forever
Thank you so much! Einen guten Rutsch!
Die Freude war mir
I am glad to hear you are fine! Now more than ever it is important to not let fear rule our lives. I am still in disbelief over the election results here and am saddened that this seems to have emboldened so many hateful fringe groups. Merry Christmas! 😊
Thank you! I hope you spent a wonderful Christmas with your family. Damn, that cake looked good! Einen guten Rutsch!
Our Christmas was perfect! Quiet and non-commercial. Happy New Year to you too und einen guten Rutsch to you too! 😊
“In a time that provides a fantastic breeding ground for fascism, the decent people, of whom I choose to believe they still make up the majority, ought to stand up and do something. I am not sure if I want to live in a world, in which I need to mark myself safe on Facebook.” – Oh ja, das sind die richtigen Worte. Danke sehr.
Vielen Dank! Ein Lob von dir ist mir viel wert! I wish you a happy and peaceful New Year: )
Glad to hear that you are safe. Of course I would have loved to have heard more about your transition back to Germany from Australia.
Yes, terrorism is a threat in many places and unfortunately fuelled by fear. I don’t think we should ever give up efforts for a happier world and we need not do that through violence.
Still, glad that we have technology to tell us that you’re okay 😀
Thank you. We’ve all been there before… The media probably blows it a bit out of proportion. As tragic as the attack was and the impact on victims and helpers or the thought of this guy somewhere out there, it is probably a lot more likely to get killed by a car crash in Europe. Still, the place was a symbol for peace.
I think you have the right attitude otherwise we’d have to stop living.
🙂 people in Berlin can be strangely calm. Maybe it’s cause they’re stubborn?!
Hope you are enjoying it there. I once visited and enjoyed myself.
Yes, thanks. Berlin is a great place to be! I’m looking forward to starting into the New Year with lots of energy.
😀
Resilient is good word too. It is good to see you have that.
Maybe you just have to? As chevvy8 said, otherwise we’d have to stop living.